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It's the silly season...My SWIPER !

It's the silly season...Which means getting your swipe on and scoring a Tinderella over summer is top priority! Sexologist, sexuality coach, tantra practitioner and author Juliet Allen dishes on the top tips for making (and keeping) your Tinder game strong over the holiday period.


It’s no secret that I’ve recently done a fair bit of ‘market research’ on Tinder…and let’s just say, it’s a hell of a jungle out there. Gentleman, listen up, if you’re serious about Tinder, and you genuinely want to match up with a sex goddess like myself, then I suggest most of you consider a major overhaul of your profiles…immediately.

Don’t get me wrong, you’re not all bad, in fact some of you are incredibly genuine, hot, amazing men…what I’m saying is that Tinder is all about how you present yourself, and putting up four photos of your dog isn’t exactly going to get you the swipe rights that you deserve.

So, here’s six simple and effective ways to spice up your Tinder profile and get you more matches than you every imagined possible:

Think of your profile as your personal brandalex-blajan-gX-bQbm37ZI-unsplash.jpg?fit=234%2C350&ssl=1

Eye catching, well thought-out branding is essential for any successful product or service that’s on the market … that includes you, gentleman. I encourage you to think about your Tinder profile as your very own ‘personal brand’. Get busy curating a profile that gives women a damn good idea of who you are (or who you want to be).

Put up at least one photo that clearly shows your eyes

Oh my God, the amount of men who just put up photos in sunglasses (and sh*t sunglasses at that) is incredible. Men, women love eye contact! Your eyes are the ‘gateway to your soul’ (no, seriously)…show us what your eyes look like so that we can somehow virtually connect in and get the full picture of what your face would look like while you’re naked on top of us.

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Please, no photos of kids

Fair enough, you want the world to know you’re a ‘super Dad’, or you’re ‘Uncle of the year’ and yes, hot dads definitely get my vote. But please, DO NOT put up photos of you and your kid on Tinder! Seriously, do you want an image of your child on a dating app for the world to see? Have some decent respect for the children and keep their precious little faces off your profile.

Limit dog photos to ONE

Okay, we get it, you’re a dog lover, and so am I. But the amount of men who post JUST dog photos is ludicrous. Reality is, I don’t need to know if I’m attracted to your dog, I need to know if I’m attracted to YOU. So please, limit photos of you and your dog to just one.

No group shots!

You have a heap of friends, awesome, but I’m not on Tinder to date your friends (well, not knowingly that is). Plus, if you put up a group shot of you and your mates I may not even know which guy is you. And then it’s confusing. So zero group photos, please.

Stop trying to be a cool smart ass, and be real

So you’ve got the match, yippee! Now it’s time to use your brain and your charm and hook that Goddess in with some decent chat. Don’t try to be anything that you’re not, us wise women see straight through the bullshit. Be yourself, be authentic and ask for what you want. Simple as that.

- Juliet Allen

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best starters tinder 2019


best starters For your tinder Profile.

Finding a date is no longer the way it once was. You don't even have to leave the house to socialize and meet others. Dating apps such as Tinder have taken over the traditional ways of making contacts. Tinder has even become the main way to get to know and meet other singles in your area.

Ask Tinder

With thousands of users swiping your finger, it's not easy to find that perfect single. How do you know which single is worth your time? Your success stands or falls by asking the right questions. Only then will you find out whether your conversation partner is relationship material, worth trying or whether you should cancel the match immediately.

With this extensive list of Tinder questions, you separate the wheat from the chaff and you know whether it is a serious candidate or a serious left-wipe.


To gain understanding

  • What did you study?
  • Which music makes you happy?
  • If there is one thing I need to know about you, what would it be?
  • Do you have a nickname?
  • What do you prefer to eat?
  • What is your strangest characteristic?
  • Do you smoke?
  • Do you live alone?
  • Do you have a fear of something?
  • If you had the choice, who would you go out to dinner with?
  • When did you last sing for yourself?
  • Can I see your Instagram?
  • What do you value most in a friendship?
  • How would your friends describe you?
  • Are you an early riser or a night owl?
  • What do you think we have in common?
  • What are you most grateful for?
  • What is your favorite quote?
  • What's the worst thing anyone can say to you?
  • Do you drink a lot?
  • What is your favorite color?
  • What does friendship mean to you?
  • Who would you thank if you received an award today?
  • What do you dislike?
  • What is the nicest gift you have given someone?
  • Do you believe in extraterrestrial life?
  • What is your motto for life?
  • Do you like pets?
  • Where would you prefer to live?
  • What makes you happy?
  • Who would you like to be?
  • Who knows you best?
  • What is your worst habit?


  • Do you have brothers or sisters?
  • Are you good with your family?
  • How is your relationship with your mother and father?
  • How important is family to you?
  • What do you like most about your family?
  • What are you famous for among friends and family?

What the other person does

  • What kind of work do you do?
  • What does a perfect day look like for you?
  • Do you go out often?
  • Where do you go when you go out?
  • Do you like to travel?
  • What do you like to do in your free time?
  • What are you doing this weekend?
  • Do you cook?
  • Do you like to do the job?
  • What is the first thing you do when you win a million in the lottery?
  • If money wasn't important, what would you do for work?
  • Do you like to eat out?
  • Do you like shopping?
  • Do you have a todo list?

About relationships and dating

  • Do you get many matches on Tinder?
  • How many people are you currently in contact with?
  • Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
  • When did your last relationship end?
  • How long did your longest relationship last?
  • How many relationships have you had?
  • When did you first fall in love?
  • Who your ideal husband or wife?
  • Are you looking for someone serious or are you here for fun?
  • Have you ever had a one-night stand?
  • What does an ideal first date look like for you?
  • How was your first kiss?
  • Do you believe in love at first sight?
  • Are you romantic?
  • What do you like about me now?
  • Which part of my profile did you persuade to chat with me?
  • Which characteristic do you like to see in your partner?
  • What makes you feel safe?
  • What do you find attractive in a man or a woman?
  • What makes you feel loved?
  • Do you believe in marriage?
  • Have you ever cheated on you?
  • Has your heart ever been broken?
  • What does love mean to you?

The hobbies

  • What is your favorite sport?
  • Do you have a blog?
  • Do you sport?
  • Have you ever had an injury?
  • What do you think about reality television programs?
  • What is the worst movie you've ever seen?
  • Which movie did you cry?
  • What do you think is the best film ever made?


  • Chips or chocolate?
  • Pandas or penguins?
  • Dogs or cats?
  • Coffee or tea?
  • Nick or Simon?
  • Cinema or movie on the couch?
  • Peanut butter or jam?
  • Canada or Brazil?
  • Give or take?
  • Rich or famous?

The future

  • What is your biggest dream?
  • Would you ever want to become famous?
  • If a real glass ball can predict your future, do you want to know?
  • Is there something you've been dreaming about for a long time?
  • Which actor can you play if your life is ever filmed?
  • Do you ever want children?


  • What is the biggest win of your life?
  • What is your best memory?
  • Which memory would you rather forget?
  • What are you most ashamed of?
  • When did you last cry?
  • What did you ever do that you would not do anymore?
  • What is the hardest thing you have ever done?
  • When was the last time you were nervous?

Whether you meet someone in a busy McDonald's or you are on Tinder: by asking questions you will find out who you are dealing with. A date is a date and that also applies to Tinder.

Is it a weirdo that you have to say goodbye to quickly or the 10/10 that you shouldn't let go? With the help of the list of good Tinder questions, you quickly discover whether you can continue to swipe or give your fingers a rest forever.

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Tinder pc is a dating app that has quickly gained ground in the Netherlands but also in other countries worldwide. 



The app shows your photos to other singles after which they can like your photos or not. You also get to see photos of other singles that you may also like or not. If both singles like each other then there is a match. This is just the beginning. The pleasure is not to swipe the photos to the right and left. The goal of Tinder is to bring singles together. Here are some tips that men can use to meet a woman through Tinder:


Start the conversation yourself

Although women are increasingly taking the initiative, they still want the man to make the first move. Women want men to make them feel special. You do that as a man by making the first move and starting the conversation.

"Hello" is not enough

Is that all you have to say to a potential partner? That is what the woman thinks if you only send "Hello" as the first message. It comes across as lazy and unoriginal. If you can't say more than "Hello" as the opening of the conversation, you don't have much chance.


Ask questions

By asking questions you show that you are interested in the other. It is a good indication that a conversation is going well if you are not the only person asking the questions. If you answer a woman's question, don't forget to ask aquestion. A good conversation gives room for both to ask the other one after the other.

Use smileys

Sending messages via Tinder is different from a normal conversation. You cannot show your emotions when you say something that makes it difficult to emphasize something. Use the smileys to indicate if you are joking or surprised. The smileys are easy to convey feelings that are difficult to translate with words alone.

Search for common interests

A good topic to talk about is shared interests. What does she like to do? Does she like running and you too? Use that as a subject to continue. Everyone likes to talk about things they like.

Give the other person time and space

Many people on Tinder have a life outside of Tinder. Take that into account. If you send a message to the woman, she answers, you send something back and she stops responding for a few hours; don't send more messages. You will then soon be seen as a stalker after which you will be blocked.

Ask for a meeting

Many people have been around for far too long. Do you want to meet up with the woman? Then ask her the question; “ Do you want to meet soon?" You can do this better by texting or Whatsapp or simply by calling her. This is more personal and it is good to have contact information from each other when a meeting is imminent.

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Tinder Search is a social community where you can promote your dating profile and meet new singles near you. Whether you have a profile on Tinder, Pof, Snapchat, Kik, Match, etc., Tin provides a new option that constantly prioritizes your search based on what you're looking for and connects you, in real time, with singles who want the same thing as you.

Frequently Asked Questions:
How can I enable Instant Messaging?
Go to the Profile Configuration section and enable or disable instant messaging whenever you want.

How can I search for people near my city?

Use the Search Members feature here:

How can I find people who want the same thing as me at this moment?

Go to the Member’s Section here and choose your options.

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Make new friends online, or start dating 2019

Make new friends online, or start dating someone new, but always be alert.


Many singles use websites and apps to make new friends or find casual or serious relationships. This method is no longer a taboo. In fact, it has become a social trend. According to Tinder , of the nine million singles over 18 who started new relationships last year, half used Internet dating, and it is estimated that this number will grow by at least 7% per year in the coming years . As the popularity of online dating increases, it is important to consider personal safety. If you're trying to find your soul mate on the Internet, remember that knowledge is power, and you could be risking more than just a broken heart. Kaspersky Lab shares a number of tips for safe dating:

  • Be aware of what you share
    • Even if you have been careful not to provide your phone number, address, or personal email when making plans for a rendezvous, someone can still track you on social networks. For example, if someone is attracted to your profile on a dating site, they can find you on Facebook. And if, by chance, you have just posted that you are headed to particular restaurant, your virtual security has collapsed. To avoid this, remember to consider the safety of online dating and use high security settings on all of your social networking accounts.
    • Beware of applications like Instagram that broadcast your exact location online and set your security restrictions to only give trusted people access to personal information and activities.
    • Playing with digital fire. Location-based mobile meet-ups have become a rising trend in the online dating industry. Singles are leaving traditional Internet dating sites for these GPS applications.


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